You can reach out now to someone that you are estranged from…
Sometimes one piece of art stops me in my tracks with it’s inescapable beauty and truth.
Pixar, the studio that brought us Toy Story, Up!, Finding Nemo and so much more, has released a new short that’s a luminous paean to memory, grief and love.
“Borrowed Time” is an animated short film, directed by Andrew Coats & Lou Hamou-Lhadj, and produced by Amanda Deering Jones.
The music was written & performed by Gustavo Santaolalla, composer of The Motorcycle Diaries, Biutiful, and The Last of Us and Best Original Score Academy Award winner for Brokeback Mountain and Babel.
“A weathered Sheriff returns to the remains of an accident he has spent a lifetime trying to forget. With each step forward, the memories come flooding back. Faced with his mistake once again, he must find the strength to carry on.”
Be forewarned that the story includes a tragic loss…
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My goal is to find useful material to help women and men become victorious over verbal abuse. If I can get out of an abusive relationship so can you.
I have used these two steps myself to get out my abusive marriage of 25 years.
Thank you for posting this article Dr. King.
1.) Document Your Experience
Document, Document, Document! Susan Murphy-Milano’s work influenced my life in the 90’s when she so potently expressed the value in documenting the abuse. However, at that time, I heard her coaching as a means for me to display and/or evidence the abuse to others…in order to protect my children and myself.
Fast-forward a couple of decades. Today, I add another profound value in documenting the abuse. Doing this one thing solidifies your understanding of your experience. Through the mere connecting personal events chronologically, you can step out of the river and experience the flow of water with detached awareness. (please read that again)
Through this perspective, you can more objectively assess your circumstances and options. And moreover, from this place you are open to insights expressing your higher good…your best interest…what’s most right for you.
You have a platform within you that shows you your truth…just because (that’s how healing works). The natural tendency is to return to homeostasis. The human psyche is charmed by health and well-being.
If you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, I invite you to step out of the FOG (fear/obligation/guilt) engendered through the emotional exploitation and bask in the light.
2.) Break Your Silence
Never underestimate the power of your speaking your truth. You hear it for what it is when you speak of it outside of the relationship itself.
So for example, when you open up the abuse dialogue to your healthcare provider or when you go to the police, or you go to your clergy or you confide in a family member or friend, your understanding of the domestic abuse can transition from confusion to clarity.
In some respect, this action in and of itself also aids in your stepping out of the river. Your perspective is through a lens created that is untainted by the direct influence of the abusive relationship itself.
Another way of saying this is: the toxicity within it becomes clearer to you, because you are interfacing with it through non-intoxicated eyes that participate in it through “love,” “habit,” “blindness” or some conscious and/or unconscious “need.”
It’s my gift to you if this article inspires you to document the abuse and break your silence. As always however, when in an abusive relationship be mindful of safety first. Seek counsel through professionals knowledgeable about domestic abuse when implementing any strategies to end it.
For more information about the dynamics of intimate partner abuse, visithttp://www.preventabusiverelationships.com/spousal_abuse_tx.php orhttp://www.preventabusiverelationships.com/breaking_abuse_cycle.phpand claim Free Instant Access to The 7 Realities of Verbal Abuse. Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. helps people worldwide recognize, end and heal from domestic abuse.
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With thanks to Gee, an inspirational blogger, for turning me on to this video. Woke me up today, so I’m sharing it with you. “You’ve gotta want to succeed as bad as you wanna breathe!” RISK, LEAP, JOY! Your life matters. You can love the story of your life…. Find out how to inspire […]